I love you guys. I’d do this for each and every one of you if I could.

I love you guys. I’d do this for each and every one of you if I could.

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Anonymous asked: I just found out one of my friends is dead... He committed less then an hour ago and i just jealous.. Not even sad

Firstly, I’m sorry about your friend. That’s never easy and sad or not, the emotions that come with something like that are difficult, I’m not sure what you believe in, but just know that I’ll be keeping both you and your friend in my prayers.

It’s okay not to be sad. Not everyone is when somebody dies. Everyone deals with it differently and just because people cry in the movies doesn’t mean everyone has to cry in real life. I certainly don’t. You’re not alone in that. 

Also, I assume you are dealing with suicidal feelings and that is why you are jealous of your friend. That’s okay, it’s normal to be jealous of someone dead when you want to be dead. People dealing with suicidal idealations often find their heads so full of these idealations its hard to feel anything else, including sadness for a lost friend. This is practically chemical. The chemicals that are making you depressed and suicidal practically take over your brain, leaving little room for other emotions and thoughts. This makes you almost apathetic, caring only about these thoughts. 

On that note, I hate that you are in this situation and this mindset. If I can give you any advice during this extremely difficult time in light of your friend dying, it’s to honor their memory by taking care of yourself. Remember all the good times you had with your friend. The laughs, the jokes, the times when you weren’t feeling this way…Your friend wouldn’t want you feeling this way. They wouldn’t want you doing what they did. Take all the joy, all the good, all the amazing memories from your friend’s life, and focus on those in your life right now. And live a life good enough for the both of you, one that would make them proud.

I love you my friend. It’s going to be okay.

JerseyXo

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Anonymous asked: Its bad tonight, I feel like I might give in and I dont want to. I feel pathetic but whomever you are, are you awake?

My name is Jersey. You didn’t need to feel pathetic, the reason you feel so bad tonight is because you’re probably tired from having been strong for so long. That’s admirable, not pathetic. And yeah I’m awake. And I’ll stay up with you if you need me to.

If anyone needs support tonight hit me up anonymously or here. Also, if you need a distraction, go here.

If anyone needs support tonight hit me up anonymously or here. Also, if you need a distraction, go here.

This one is weird but I feel like it’s really relatable. It’s a human thing to be insecure in our friendships and get jealous over who trusts who and what was told to which friends. But even if you find yourself getting jealous, please put that behind you. Your friend needs you.

This one is weird but I feel like it’s really relatable. It’s a human thing to be insecure in our friendships and get jealous over who trusts who and what was told to which friends. But even if you find yourself getting jealous, please put that behind you. Your friend needs you.

100th TIP MOTHERFUCKINGFUCKERS!

Hey guys, my 100th tip was today in case the title didn’t tip you off. (Pun?) Thanks to all the continued support and I hope what I’ve been doing has helped some of you guys to be better friends or to better communicate to your friends what you need from them.

Stay Brutal.

-Jersey

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To the kids out there having a bad night tonight, smile because it gets better. And if you need someone to get you through the night, talk to me. anon-nations.tumblr.com if you want to be anonymous.

To the kids out there having a bad night tonight, smile because it gets better. And if you need someone to get you through the night, talk to me. anon-nations.tumblr.com if you want to be anonymous.

Almost to my 100th tip! I’ll do something special for that guys;). But anyways, if anyone is struggling tonight and would like to talk to someone anonymously, get on my blog anon-nations. I’ll listen to you okay? And if anyone would like to submit some secrets they wana get off their chest, I’d love to post some of those.

Almost to my 100th tip! I’ll do something special for that guys;). But anyways, if anyone is struggling tonight and would like to talk to someone anonymously, get on my blog anon-nations. I’ll listen to you okay? And if anyone would like to submit some secrets they wana get off their chest, I’d love to post some of those.